A 34 year old woman Patricia Kama seeks dissolution of her 5 year old marriage with her husband Dilia Kama who she claimed that she is not sure if he is a man or not, saying that he has never made love to her since she married him 5 years ago, even when she tried to induce the sex, but it appeared that there was more to the case that meets the eye.
The frustrated woman told the court in Abuja that
she sleep on the bed or walk the whole house naked but her husband would never
even look at her, sometimes when she tries to seduce him, he will push her
aside or he may fall asleep so fast that she will be left lonely.
In her statement, she said that she is still a young
woman who has emotional needs and cannot continue to be in a dead-beat marriage
which might lead her into promiscuity.
Dilia 43, who told the court that he has never
developed urge to sleep with women revealed that he has a medical condition
which was that he has never fully undergone puberty, which means he has never
fully developed his sexual organ, a rare medical condition which affects a man’s
sexual life which he cannot impregnate a woman. It appeared that he hid it from
his wife’s knowledge until when his woman seek divorce.
She said “I have endured too much celibacy for over
5 years of marriage to an extent that I have started considering looking
elsewhere for attention, I do want to have kids in my marriage, besides I do
not want to be that woman who leaves her marriage to seek for sex from outside
while my husband is still alive. He could have opened up to me earlier then we
could have sought for a solution together, but right now my mind is no longer into
this marriage anymore”.
However, the husband told the court not to dissolve
the marriage, saying that he loves his wife, that he hid his condition from her
because he didn’t want his wife to panic and thought he could handle it alone
but now it seems that time is no longer on his side. He said that he has never
treated his wife badly and has always provided for her with everything she
needs.
“I kindly ask her to give me a chance to solve this
puberty issue, I didn’t think it would cost me my marriage”, he said.
The judge, Lamido, told both parties to take some
time to work on their marriage, asking Dilia to go seek for medical attention
in order to ascertain if his condition can be treated or not.
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