A male booty call has explained his encounters with
servicing married women; he explained how these women expressed their
frustration over their men. Read his comments:
“Low self-esteem is what is dealing with plenty of
our Nigerian men especially those that married above their social status. They
lack the attitude to navigate their women into total submission, which is part
of what has led their women into cheating.
Some of the ladies I render services to complain
bitterly about their husband’s weaknesses, they want a man they can look up to
as a husband and not a submissive husband who doesn’t have his own opinion or
who is too blinded by his own ego to argue just about everything just to assert
his masculinity.
Some men may not know this but masculinity is not
all about showing strength, its mostly about leadership, some men cannot even
lead themselves not to talk of leading other people. Many wives who have gone
astray in their marriages have done so as a result of this.
Many men grow to associate their identity with the
society’s acceptable behaviours rather than what they really want, they think
that women are really complex, some think that women don’t even know what they
want, but women respond to authority the same way they respond to money.
One lady once told me that her husband do not even
understand her emotionally, he thinks that all he can do is come back home
every day from work, provide for his family and have sex and that is it.
Another one said that all her husband does is to keep asserting his manly
rights as the head of the family and that is all that it is in the marriage.
Women are been misunderstood by men as a result of
men not being emotionally developed".
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